Marvin "Butch" Alderman Class of 1956 dies Sep. 2, 2024

Marvin Phelps Alderman
July 14, 1938 — September 2, 2024
St. Albans

Marvin Phelps Alderman, 86, of Georgia, Vermont, passed away peacefully on September 2, 2024, surrounded by his family. He is fondly remembered for his thirty years of dedicated service to the Georgia community and his unwavering commitment to education and family.

Born on July 14, 1938, in Fairfax, Vermont, to Stephen and Gwendolyn (Marvin) Alderman, Marvin devoted his life to nurturing young minds and fostering a supportive educational environment. After earning a master’s degree in education from Johnson State College, he began his teaching career at Milton Middle School and Bellows Free Academy in Fairfax. In 1966, Marvin became the principal of Georgia Elementary and Middle School.

Marvin was known for his belief in the transformative power of education and worked tirelessly to ensure every student had the opportunity to succeed. He coined the phrase “where everybody is somebody” at Georgia School, reflecting his deep belief in the inherent worth of every student. A staunch advocate for educational equity, he was committed to ensuring that all students had access to the resources they needed, regardless of socioeconomic status. Marvin’s generosity was evident in his actions; he was always the first to provide winter coats and supplies for children in need. Beyond his professional achievements, he was cherished for his kindness, dedication, and humor. Marvin was a mentor, a friend, and an inspiration to all who knew him.

He is survived by his beloved wife of sixty years, Judith Ann Alderman (Savard). The two met while studying education at Johnson State College and were married on November 23, 1963. They shared a love of education and worked together at Bellows Free Academy and Georgia Elementary and Middle School. Marvin and Judith initially lived in Saint Albans before moving to Georgia, and later to Fairfax. They ultimately settled on Georgia Shore Road, where they enjoyed their retirement and cherished the beauty of Lake Champlain and their surroundings. They loved traveling to New Mexico, celebrating Western and Native American culture, golden retrievers, and collecting art from local artists. They often enjoyed the company of their friends, including the late Maurice Fitzgerald of Georgia and his wife, Mary, as well as their extended family.

Straight out of high school, Marvin joined the Navy, where he met his lifelong friend, Wayne Larry of Saint Albans. Marvin and Wayne maintained their friendship throughout their service, visiting each other whenever possible. They enjoyed reminiscing often about their nearly seventy-year bond over a rum and coke and a laugh. On Marvin’s last day, even though he was partially conscious, he recognized the presence of his best friend and managed to greet Wayne with a heartfelt "hello," a final gesture that spoke to the depth of their lifelong bond.

Marvin is also survived by his four children: Stephen Alderman and his partner, Rhonda; Mary Beth and her wife, Margaret; Margery Haselman; and Samuel Alderman and his wife, Darcee. His grandchildren include Joshua Haselman, Shelby Haselman, Sydney Alderman, Sophie Alderman, Savannah Alderman and her fiancé, Griffin, and Sadie Alderman. He is also survived by his sister Patricia McNall of Fairfax and her family. Marvin's memory will live on in the hearts of his family, friends, and the many students whose lives he touched with his dedication and love.

Marvin was an avid collector of antiques and a master craftsman, renowned for his expansive knowledge of history, antiques, and woodworking. In his workshop, he dedicated himself with precision and love to crafting beautiful furniture that will be cherished for generations. His high skill level and passion for the craft were evident in every piece he created. His collection of antiques from his hometown of Fairfax, notably Farrar & Stearns stoneware jugs from the 1800s, serves as a tangible link to a bygone era, reflecting his deep appreciation for local history and craftsmanship. His grandson Joshua not only continues this cherished tradition by preserving the antique collection but has also learned the art of woodworking from Marvin. This passing down of skills ensures that Marvin's legacy of historical reverence and craftsmanship lives on through Joshua’s work.

Even after being diagnosed with cancer in 1994 at the age of 56, Marvin demonstrated extraordinary strength and resilience. Throughout his subsequent health battles, he remained steadfast and continued to lead a vibrant and fulfilling life for 32 more years. His unwavering courage and determination were evident until his very last day, leaving a profound impact on everyone who knew him.

In lieu of flowers, the family requests that donations be made to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital in Marvin’s honor. Marvin was a consistent and generous donor to St. Jude’s throughout his life, reflecting his deep compassion for children in need. Marvin will be dearly missed but fondly remembered for his unwavering commitment to his family, his remarkable resilience, and the profound impact he made on his community.